Genital warts are very contagious and are spread during oral, vaginal, or anal sex with an infected partner. They are transmitted by skin-to-skin contact during vaginal, anal, or (rarely) oral sex with someone who is infected. About two-thirds of people who have sexual contact with a partner with genital warts will develop warts, usually within 3 months of contact.
It hasn't been three months yet. I am still not sure that he has it, but I am pretty sure since his text message last night said, "Three letters: HPV". If I get it, or if I have HPV, especially if contacted from a friend, I am going to be so mad. There is no way to test for it in males, but I am hoping that I am safe. I wish he would call me back, but I am pretty sure he has it.
I was really drunk when we hooked up and it wasn't until afterward, when he was asleep naked on his stomach that I noticed a weird growth on his anus, but I didn't ask him about it because I felt weird since he was/is a friend and it might have been something else. I didn't make contact with it, but I had sucked his dick and so there is surely a risk. But thankfully, there is not much of a risk with oral sex so these sites I have been looking at say. And it was brief sucking. There was no fluids exhanged and it was mainly just jerking each other off interupted by the occasional giving of head.
The day after, sober, I was really paranoid about it and washed my sheets and told him that we could not hook up anymore. The reason being my fear of his ass, but I did not tell him that. And now a couple months later, this mysterious text message that perhaps confirms my suspicions.
Fingers crossed that no warts sprout up. Fingers crossed. Call me back. I am actually not too worried since it has been a couple of months and the contact was minimal and no signs of HPV yet, but still a little nervous. STDs are so scary.